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Sober Story: Jane

Interviews

"I think my intent was to disappear myself, or to reach some plateau where I’d feel great and recapture some of the fun I used to have in my 20s."

June 15, 2026

Why you should join our community!!

Mrs D's Blog

Read this to understand how our site works, we want you to get he most out of it!

June 15, 2026 – 7 comments

Golden Milk

Drink of the Week

This 'hug in a mug' contains many powerful spices including turmeric and ginger.

June 11, 2026

Stages of Change

Stages of Change

Despite the complexity of addiction, there is a known path that people follow as they work to change habits. This article offers an overview of each phase of the Stages of Change model. The articles below explore each phase in detail with input from Living Sober members who have shared their lived experience of change.

June 5, 2026 – 2 comments

When heavy drinking is normal (Pre-Contemplation)

Stages of Change

At Pre-Contemplation, the negative consequences are real and impactful, but you're not clearly seeing them yet.

June 5, 2026 – 1 comment

When the worries begin (Contemplation)

Stages of Change

Contemplation comes before any concrete plans are formed or moves to change are made, but things are definitely starting to shift internally.

June 5, 2026

When you're getting ready to quit (Preparation)

Stages of Change

The third recognised stage of the change process is where you start actively getting ready to quit.

June 5, 2026

When you stop drinking (Action)

Stages of Change

Of all the stages, Action is the most time consuming, involving a huge amout of focus and effort.

June 5, 2026

When you stick at it (Maintenance)

Stages of Change

Being in the Maintenance stage involves consolodation and bedding in the new behaviours.

June 5, 2026

When slip-ups occur (Relapse)

Stages of Change

Relapse is common, but it doesn't occur for everyone.

June 5, 2026 – 1 comment