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Thanks for the welcome folks I’ve just seen them now and gave me a lovely feeling of not being alone, don’t want to sound like moaning molly but living alone (my husband died 7 years ago) it was easy to just drink as much as I wanted without anyone saying that might be enough. Anyway day 3 and so far so good, i think, but I noticed today I started to think this is a doddle I can stop anytime so I’ll get a couple of bottles in for Friday, bloody alcohol so sneaky ?. I’m getting stuck into lego tonight I pretend it’s for the grandkids but then I’ve been very good at pretending. I suppose what gets me through the night, right?
My attempt at sobriety…once again.Anyone up?
Me too (again)
Hello Everyone who welcome me (Sapat) to this group. Not sure if I have done ok but please email if I haven’t. Like Malm not good at all with technology. thanx Sapata
How did you know it was time to stop?
Hi Caroline 27 and others. I am not tech savy. Want to join community but paranoid about privacy. I have to put my name personal details below . I pray it’s private