@stevef I totally understand – my family dynamics have changed so much and I get lonely too. I used to have 16 nieces and nephews around me plus my kids with big get togethers. I miss it sometimes too. I think it’s natural to feel down like that once in a while as we go into these different phases of our lives. I’m thinking of you! Just remember…[Read more]
@fridaymay92014 I understand worrying about your adult kids – I have two and I have to detach with love. I’m always here and they know that but I also know I can’t jump in and fix things for them. I have to give them the dignity of their own process, their own decisions, their own life lessons, their own successes and mistakes to learn from. It’s…[Read more]
@sober4real that makes sense. You are right. I need to let go. I know this at other times but did not have it straight in my head today. I need to copy and past your words about “give them the dignity of their own processes, their own life decisions, their own successes and mistakes….” That is part of what did not feel right. I was butting in too much.
@ro great post – LOL those moaners. I do not want to be a moaner anymore. Quitting the drink solved that problem for me. I’m sorry about your daughter. What type of surgery? I know you will be a strong support to her when she needs it. We all have to let someone know we are worried as we are human but when it comes time you will show your…[Read more]
@clouisec I’m so happy you are here….this is a great opportunity to go AF for yourself and no one else. Doing this will help you be the healthy person you want and deserve to be and you will know you did all you could for your marriage as well. Just be focused on it for you…..when you get better everything will get better and you will have a…[Read more]
@tewy hi there, it will pass! I can’t believe how much free brain time I have now. Hang in there…..it absolutely gets better and you will realize you are thinking about things you haven’t in years, it just takes a bit of time. xoxoxxoxo
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