• Just finishing up Day 25 here and feeling pretty good. I have been seeing a counselor at our local Mental Health/ Addiction Services and have been feeling positive about things for the most part. Although I occasionally think it would be nice to have a drink with this great summer weather we are having, western Canada, I know I cannot go down that route again. It is helpful having a professional to talk to this time, she has been a great fit for me. It is also helpful having P, my bf in my life, during this tough time as he is so supportive of the changes I am making for both him and I. I am a much better person when I am not poisoning myself. He has known that for a long time, but I am remembering that now too.

    • Itโ€™s great when you find a good councillors, how awesome you BF is totally supportive 💕

    • It’s great you recognize you are a better person when not drinking! You’ll only love yourself the more from now on.

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago

    I am on Day 16 and the first week was easier than this last week for me. I have just been staying extra busy during the day, eating /snacking on some not so nutritious foods( which is not usual for me) drinking a ton of flavoured club soda, and making myself go to bed earlier at night to turn my cravings off. Some days are harder than others for sure. I am seeing a counselor tomorrow so I am going to talk to her about this exact thing and see if she can help me with other ideas. It is not easy for sure, so just keep trying different things, and popping on here helps…I almost caved yesterday but popped on and read some posts before bed and it seemed to help.

  • shalane posted an update 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    Day 11. Have had a rough week with headaches and some major things shifting in my life that have caused some stress. I have stayed strong but it has been hard. I think I have drank 30+ cans of flavoured sparkling water plus pain water in this short period of time, but it helps me get by, as does reading all of your posts and ideas. Stay strong everyone!

    • Well done shalane. We can do this together. Iโ€™m day 12. But each day is a win and a smile on the dial in the morning. So proud.

    • Ro replied 2 weeks ago

      Way to go on legs eleven! Good on you for getting through the challenges the universe through at you this week. Don’t forget to allow yourself to feel really good about staying alcohol free- it is hard! Treat yourself to something nice you deserve it ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Headaches are not good. Wonderful you managed to stay strong and also have plenty of water. I hope you have a pain free weekend, and a good week.

    • Your body is healing, and it takes a while for that to finish. And of course, the first 11 days are the toughest.

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    Thank you for your advice. No little ones in my house, I have three grown up kids and two little grandbabies but none live with me. I saw the dr the other day about the headaches and she did give me something to take he edge of if necessary. Trying to eat better and increase water and feeling a little better…on Day 11.5 now.

  • shalane posted an update 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    Just passed into 7 complete days AF. Happy about this, but dealing with headaches and a lack of appetite. I know it is all related, but it sure makes it difficult to work with this constant vice grip on my head lol. Hope you are all well.

    • Yay on day 7! Oh the headache. I had a bad one. Not sure if it was giving up the booze, the cold I got at the same time or both!

    • Heya @shalane. Yep, hereโ€™s where we focus on the right food (put something healthy in there every few hrs), sip water, juices, maybe some paracetamol every 4hrs, donโ€™t exceed dosage, breathing, self, self, self-care and early bedtimes. I think youโ€™ve got a little one around the house, soโ€ฆ..just do whatโ€™s essential and safe. Not eating is not a choice right now. Rockinโ€™ that full week !!! Wow.

      • Thank you for your advice. No little ones in my house, I have three grown up kids and two little grandbabies but none live with me. I saw the dr the other day about the headaches and she did give me something to take he edge of if necessary. Trying to eat better and increase water and feeling a little better…on Day 11.5 now.

    • Well done on 7 days! Huge acheivement… it gets better ๐Ÿ™‚

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    It is true, pick yourself up….dust yourself off and start over. Deep breath in, it is a new day….I will start again with you

  • shalane posted an update 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    Oh hey…look..it is me again…goddddd! I am so done with this version of me. I went to the dr, I got referred to Mental Health and Addiction…I had an appmt, was evaluated by a psychiatric nurse who stated my case to the table to see what my best option is. Detox…I get that but I am the only source of income for myself and have no benefits, as well as being self employed and working for a family with teenage kids who need morning and after school care(one with autism/health issues) That is the job I consider my main job. I cannot take time off work. I am high functioning. I know I need to figure this out, but what do people do when they have no options for income while they get better? I have detoxed myself before, i just didnt get professional or group support afterward, and I know that was a huge fault in my relapse. Ideas please. Im feeling lost.

    • I go as an out patient and check in weekly. Perhaps talk to your addictions nurse, Iโ€™m sure you arenโ€™t the only one with this problem, there has to be a way around it. All the best xxx

    • Hi @shalane I think you’re answered the problem for yourself. You need to continue work, so residential detox and rehab are out.
      You have to do this within your own resources but recognise that you can’t succeed alone. That’s a biggie!… if we could do this on our own then we’d have done so a long time ago wouldn’t we?

      So you’re detoxing at home, and getting sober at home, and carrying on working, but also engaged with some sort of community based recovery. My observation (in New Zealand) is that this is how most people have to get sober… so it’s perfectly possible. You just need to make your plans accordingly. You can do this and the way to start is to tip out any alcohol that you still have in the house. Good luck and stay connected.

    • Whatever you decide, it sounds as if you are determined, and know what to do, right?
      Is it safe to detox at home? Do you get support to do that?

    • Hi @Shalane! If you do detox at home, check in with us regularly. Ask any questions – there are a lot of really helpful people who run the experience of addiction and recovery. Arm yourself with information – I love Annie Grace’s book and videos on youtube. Drink lots of water. Eat chocolate/fruit to help with cravings. Sleep. One of the best pieces of advice (tiredofthinkingaboutdrinking.com) I heard was ‘go to bed early’. Lots of good reading on: hip sobriety.com, lauramckowen.com and thesoberschool.com. A big thing is to ‘rewire’ your brain. You can do this! We’ve got your back.

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    Thank you for the reminder as I start on my sober journey again tomorrow. Soooo many more reasons to not drink, but so hard when you are in a bad space….Im so frustrated with myself. Tomorrow is a new day.

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 6 months, 3 weeks ago

    Welcome BreatheDeep!

    • Thanks hun. I reckon I will be mostly a bit lurky to begin with. Just sussing it out really. Shall see how we go :-).*

      • Lurky is just fine – until you breathdeep and take the plunge. Just a small start perhaps, like, how is your week going, and what is your greatest motivator to be exploring here?

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 6 months, 3 weeks ago

    Thank you for being open with your realness….a reminder to not succumb to the head talk with all the parties coming up. That little voice is a sneaky bugger.

    • The thing is I know Birthdays ,xmas occasions out can be amazing sober . I loved New year’s day waking up hangover free and out with my dog on a frosty morning walk . I felt amazing . I must remember to tell myself why is good about the event . Meeting friends , xmas lights , good food , remembering the evening ,no shame anxiety panic the next morning . And no hangover . It is such a huge blessing to find sobriety and a massive learning curve about who I am .
      I have decided this time round I am going to post more . Just to keep me focused . Sleep well . Here’s to a bright morning

  • Hi everyone. I have been MIA but I am still on board. Day 26 here and feeling pretty good for the most part. I have had a few days when my boyfriend has asked if he can get me anything to drink (he is abstaining with me for the most part) and I have said how much I would really love a glass of wine (in a sarcastic tone) Well, really wanting one but knowing I will not. I pretty much don’t think about it a lot anymore, but I also know it is early days, and to be honest I have not been to any functions where it plays a big role (YET) but they are coming soon. That will be the real test. I’m pretty sure I will be ok with Paul as my support. I also know if it gets too difficult we can always go home a bit early. No shame in that right!? I hope you all are well. Loving the look of the new website. I will poke around a bit more when i have more time . Heading to bed , it is 12:40am here in Western Canada!

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 6 months, 3 weeks ago

    Are you speaking of the Sober Calculator? That is on the homepage.

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 7 months, 1 week ago

    Thanks @Tom4500. I paddle dragonboat and outrigger canoe in British Columbia Canada. I have a huge canoe race coming up in the Yukon in June next year, so I need to be in good mental and physical shape for i,t so being sober is important to me. It is 715km down the Yukon River. I did it once before but this time it is in a tandem canoe rather then a voyageur canoe, so more responsibility and strength is needed! Excited but very nervous!

    • Wow. Amazing trip. I’m so jealous. Although my canoeing was more leisurely. We take children and way too much gear. How many days to finish that race? I’ll bet its just a couple of exhausting days. A dream of mine to get to B.C., I should just put the map in the pack and go.

    • Looked it up the “Race to the Midnight Sun”…four days. The pictures lead me to believe the river is wide enough that you don’t get much help from river current….maybe its narrower in stretches? Anyway, I’m impressed.

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 7 months, 1 week ago

    Thank you, to you as well. It sure does help. Just knowing people “get what you mean” when you talk. Very supportive. Im a paddler so I like your analogy!

  • shalane posted an update 7 months, 1 week ago

    Checking in on Day 11 (well in 2 hrs it will be) . Feeling good about staying on track. Loving that the gritty feeling under my eyes no longer exists. Loving the clarity. Loving sleeping better. Loving that I am once again getting things organized in my life. Loving that I am still kind of funny without booze. Loving that my boyfriend is proud of me and abstaining alongside me to be supportive. Loving myself more each day. Thank you to all of you for being here <3

    • Good luck to you….it helps to know that you are not alone, that there are people paddling the same boat, doesnโ€™t it?

      • Thank you, to you as well. It sure does help. Just knowing people “get what you mean” when you talk. Very supportive. Im a paddler so I like your analogy!

    • Great post, Shalane, makes me feel better hearing of your positivity. That boyfriend sounds special. Many here have to travel the road without that support, although my wife very, very rarely drinks, so I’m fortunate that way, too. Lifelong paddler here as well, although still haven’t bought a kayak…always canoes in the BWCA, as my friend @Amy knows. That window is closing for this 65 year old. Well done on that tough first ten days, and nice to see you’re already feeling good results. Wishing you additional strength.

      • Thanks @Tom4500. I paddle dragonboat and outrigger canoe in British Columbia Canada. I have a huge canoe race coming up in the Yukon in June next year, so I need to be in good mental and physical shape for i,t so being sober is important to me. It is 715km down the Yukon River. I did it once before but this time it is in a tandem canoe rather then a voyageur canoe, so more responsibility and strength is needed! Excited but very nervous!

        • Wow. Amazing trip. I’m so jealous. Although my canoeing was more leisurely. We take children and way too much gear. How many days to finish that race? I’ll bet its just a couple of exhausting days. A dream of mine to get to B.C., I should just put the map in the pack and go.

        • Looked it up the “Race to the Midnight Sun”…four days. The pictures lead me to believe the river is wide enough that you don’t get much help from river current….maybe its narrower in stretches? Anyway, I’m impressed.

  • shalane posted an update 7 months, 1 week ago

    Checking in, it’s been a few days but Im still on track…1.5 more hours til I start my Day 8.
    Finally starting to get over this head/chest cold that hit me last week, but all in all feeling pretty good.

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    Always good to get up and do something active. Clear your head and carry on. Throw away your guilt and start fresh <3

  • It is Saturday where I live. Being stuck in bed with a headcold while detoxing has probably been good for me. I dont do sick well as I am on the go and busy all the time with my cleaning business. I was forced to take yesterday off due to being ill and am still in bed but starting to feel better. It has given me the downtime I needed to rest, sleep more and read. I bought Lottas book a few years ago and never finished reading it, most likely due to continuing to drink and not stay concentrated….last night I read a third of it and am back into it today. It was the right time for me, Also, keeping this page open and refreshing it every hour and reading comments has helped me get through the last couple of days so thank you all. Day 3.5 and feeling ok with where I am. Stay strong!

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    I agree!

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    Thank you. I recall those names yes.
    This time I have already gone to a private counseling meeting to talk to someone, and am currently looking at local AA meetings. I also do need to see my new DR, but he is replacing my retired one, and a man, no offense to anyone, but I would prefer a female dr…so I have procrastinated on this, which makes detoxing on my own (but with the support of my bf) a difficult thing. However, besides feeling terrible I am doing ok… but I realize I need actual people support, so while home ill I knew I had to start by coming back on here to all of you <3

    • Great to see you back! Can you find a female Dr? Change clinics? Take care if you have been drinking a lot daily. Can be dangerous to go cold turkey.
      Thank god you got rid of the narcissist. I know that territory all to well sadly

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    Im on Day 2 as well Tim. Struggling with detoxing and a massive headcold…feeling blah. Stay strong. We can do this ๐Ÿ™‚

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  • I am back. I am on Day 2 and almost a half. I really hit bottom in the summer, then slowed down, then ramped it up again for no other reason than my tolerance level had increased. I am done with it. I have to be. I have someone in my life who loves me dearly, and is helping me get through this. I need to do this for my health. I also want this relationship to last. He is amazing, and we are amazing together. I am feeling like absolute shit today, with a mix of detoxing and being slapped with a massive head/throat cold last night. I took the day off, which I cant afford monetarily, but I know I need to be healthy, and that is more important right now. Would love to hear from you all.

    • Glad you’ve decided to give up the booze again. Detoxing with a cold is tough but you can do it, Take care of yourself. Everyone here is pulling for you. I will not drink with you today!

    • Hi @shalane itโ€™s good to see you here. I think I youโ€™ll find the support you need.

      Who do you remember from years ago? Prudence? Morgan?

      • Thank you. I recall those names yes.
        This time I have already gone to a private counseling meeting to talk to someone, and am currently looking at local AA meetings. I also do need to see my new DR, but he is replacing my retired one, and a man, no offense to anyone, but I would prefer a female dr…so I have procrastinated on this, which makes detoxing on my own (but with the support of my bf) a difficult thing. However, besides feeling terrible I am doing ok… but I realize I need actual people support, so while home ill I knew I had to start by coming back on here to all of you <3

        • Great to see you back! Can you find a female Dr? Change clinics? Take care if you have been drinking a lot daily. Can be dangerous to go cold turkey.
          Thank god you got rid of the narcissist. I know that territory all to well sadly

    • Go you @sharlane. You have amazing insight into yourself. You will only head upwards now.

    • Hello @shalane, lovely to have you back here. Lots of folk to join with you on your journey. Early days are tough but you will get through these and the horrible cold and everything will start to feel better. Post away. Take especially good care of yourself.

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 11 months, 2 weeks ago

    Canada Day weekend here and only on Day 5.5….wasn’t going to go to a picnic tomorrow but will stick to it no matter what. My boyfriend has talked about cutting down tonight a lot as well so I am feeling optimistic, which is a nice change.

    • Happy Canada Day @sharlene from Ontario! Well done on getting through your first week! I’m off to a Canada Day barbecue party tomorrow and DEFINITELY won’t be drinking. Nice to hear your boyfriend is cutting as well. Stay strong! Peace D

  • Its been years since I was on here, but not much has changed unfortunately….if anything it is worse. I am on my Day 4 and have started to make contact with a local treatment centre to find myself some type of help. I hit rock bottom a couple weekends ago at a party when I made a fool of myself and ended up trying to hitch a ride 40 kms from the party home in the dark to leave my boyfriend of 3 years there. I got a ride and thank god he was a good person and went out of his way to get me home 20kms past his own town(one way) just so I was safe and not trying to find another ride. It could have ended badly, I was lucky…but I lost a couple of friends that night as well as put my relationship in jeopardy. Enough is enough. Who am I? This is not me, and it is time to make some changes, but it sure is not easy this week. I am just so damn tired.

    • First step taken. One thing’s for sure life will improve if you don’t pick up that first drink! Gather your toolbox you’re going to need it by your side along with all the amazing people here. We’ve all been there done that too by the way ๐Ÿ˜‰ no shock factor to your rock bottom. You can clamber up from here, one day at a time, stay close x

    • Hey great to see youโ€™re back!! Thank god you got home safe! Stick with us, so much love & support here to see you through the dark days x

    • Good decision. Time to kick this to the curb and have the life you deserve.

    • Welcome back lovely. Itโ€™s so good to have you here again.

    • great to see you here .. xx

    • Hi @shalane ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Welcome back. It is a huge relief that a kind and caring person picked you up and got you home safe. It was episodes like that that prompted me to take a serious look and get some help. Alcohol doesnโ€™t just damage your physical and mental health. The effects expose hard drinkers like us to real danger. Danger that can be tragic. As long as you are not drinking you are putting yourself is a much safer place. Be really kind to yourself. We are all just trying to make today a bit better than yesterday.

    • It’s a scary decision, stopping for good, but it has to be done. Then the tired feeling can get a little joy mixed in with it. Days 4 and 5 were tough for me physically. On a side note, it’s curious how in your post of s few years ago, some of those who answered are still around. This works, this can be done.

    • @shalane glad youโ€™re here. It sounds so cliche but itโ€™s true – focus on one day at a time. And surround yourself with lots of support. Weโ€™re here for you.

    • oxxoxox

      You must be exhausted. It is very scary to have those experiences and just know you are not alone. I have walked home in the middle of the night on several occasions and picked fights with boyfriends when I was drunk. It’s tiring…and you have my compassion.

      Let’s do just today. I am proud of you for reaching out to professional support as well at the treatment center.

      I am so glad you’re here. oxoxox Let’s do this.
      It won’t feel this hard or tiring or exhausting or impossible forever. It will be ok again.

      YOU will be ok.
      And it is not your fault.

  • shalane‘s profile was updated 11 months, 3 weeks ago

  • I am so excited I got @Mrs D s book in the mail today. Ordered it last week and have been waiting “not so patiently”. Started to read it, didnt want to put it down, but was at work so I kind of had to. Looking forward to reading i cover to covert. Also, when I wake up tomorrow it will be 14 days AF! Feeling happy!

  • Havent been on for about 5 days…so incredibly busy with my umpteen jobs…have made it to 10 full days without a drink! I feel so energized between that and eating well and exercising. Goodnight everyone!

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    The thing is the last 4 days were easier, no problem at all, no headaches, no real craving but tonight it all happened, I think it was mostly the stress that triggered it. I was supposed to workout tonight but with that headache I gave myself a break and will catch up with it tomorrow. Cant be perfect in every aspect of life, especially all at the same time ๐Ÿ˜‰

  • When I wake up in 7 hours it will be 5 days completed. Tonight was the first night I felt like I just wanted to sit down after working 2 jobs and have a big glass of wine. I havent been sleeping well this week, a friend/colleague passed away this morning after battling cancer since the summer, and my ex is driving me crazy. BUT I did not give in. Im just going to go to bed and try and sleep off this headache so I can get my workout in before work in the morning, because I know if I can start my day with that exercise the rest of my day will feel pretty damn good. Night everyone, it’s comforting knowing you are all right here when we need someone to listen <3

    • That’s really great @shalene stick with it, the habit of a glass of wine still kicks in but I found it got much better after about day 10 and started to feel much better then. Remember it won’t make any of the horrible stuff go away, and you will probably find them easier to deal with. Stay with it xx

      • The thing is the last 4 days were easier, no problem at all, no headaches, no real craving but tonight it all happened, I think it was mostly the stress that triggered it. I was supposed to workout tonight but with that headache I gave myself a break and will catch up with it tomorrow. Cant be perfect in every aspect of life, especially all at the same time ๐Ÿ˜‰

    • Night night. Relax and sleep well ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Hey @shalane way to go, you are doing so well, tomorrow on your day five you will be rejoicing…have a lovely night’s sleep ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Well done, sounds like it’s a stressful time. X

    • Well done! 5 days is so good. In not pandering to your “wants and taking good care of your “needs” you are showing your own inner strength and wisdom, which will stand you in good
      stead on your journey @shalane. I hope you are able to sleep well. Xโ™ฅ

    • Nite @shalane hope you sleep better tonite. Cravings can whack us any ol time, but stay strong cos each time you beat it, it has less power next time. Hugs to you.

    • Good on you @shalane You nearly have week behind you, and that is fantastic work. It will get easier.

    • big hugs {{{โ™ฅ}}} that is very sad for you – but you are coping with real feelings rather than hiding them away in a bottle – well done ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Headache could be from toxins being released as your liver and kidneys start to give themselves a stretch. Are you drinking shit loads of water? Shut loads is what is required. You’re off to a great sober start

    • Hi Shalane – a great start – with stress and all you are almost a week alcohol free, congratulations and find some way to be kind to yourself won’t you, as well as getting the exercise.

    • Numbing the pain for awhile will only make it worse when you have to face it. You did so well. I hope today is a better day for you.

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    Congrats Rowena!

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    I like that!

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    @SueK I live on Vancouver Island!

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    I live in Canada! As far west as you can get though, welcome to my beautiful part of the world ๐Ÿ™‚

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    Welcome Jojobee. Im new too, Day 4 almost complete. Looking forward to getting to know you ๐Ÿ™‚

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    Im on the tail end of Day 3 and its 12:51am here and I cant sleep either….up in 4 hours for work too. I agree that it will take time too. It definitely is annoying and disruptive for sure, but I guess better than the alternative ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Omg mr WTF you are right, needs disclaimer. Part of me is so jealous, a whole quiet night to read & think , but I would be ill. Literally. Seriously have to sleep & sadly my kids inherited both that need and night owlishness – terrible combo. Late now ๐Ÿ™ I so want to read

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    Welcome MacDog!

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    Sounds like my life in a nutshell. Hang in there, better late than never MrWTF!

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    Congrats on 100 days!

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    Thank you , congrats on Day 5!

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    I have been eating more and feel like Im going to explode club soda everywhere…lol…I guess it’s an adjustment process and I am sure it will change as well. Im starting up my fitness plan today so it is more consistent, especially in the evenings when I really start to feel bored. I am hoping that switching up snacking for more exercise will help. But I know what you mean.

    • To be honest, I do intend to start exercising, of which currently I do zero. I just wanted to start walking before i could run, so giving up the alcohol was the 1st part, and once I’ve mastered that, which I think i nearly have, then I’ll start on the healthier foods and the fitness. One step at a time.

  • So Day 2 is complete, working on Day 3. Glad to be back to a normal work/life routine, it will help I am sure. Being at home more certainly make s things a little harder as there is a little more freedom to choose what to do, where as at work you know there is at least 8 hours where you are “safer” and less likely to make a bad decision. I reached out to a friend last night, not really a friend per se, but someone I went to school with 24 years ago. I noticed on occasion she posted on Facebook about alcohol in a way that made me wonder if she had an issue or was just cutting it out for health reasons. I took a chance and asked her a few questions. I thought she would be offended, and I told her that, but she wasnt, She was happy I reached out and said something. She made me feel more confident that I can do this and that I am strong. So here’s to getting through Day 3! Have a super day everyone ๐Ÿ™‚

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    Congrats to @Angie and @Karklina for getting through Day 1. I did as well, when I woke up this morning I opened my eyes and thought “Yay! I did it!” Seems funny for something that seems like it should be no big deal, but I know you all know what I mean, so here we go onto Day 2!

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    Im working on Day 1. Just made a club soda with fresh lemon and cranberry as the hockey game will be on in 15 minutes…trying to not think about drinking wine instead. Congrats on Day 3 @Flibbertigibbety

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    Would love to @angie. Hows your day been?

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    Welcome back Angie. I’m hoping to have day 1 by tomorrow morning. New beginnings ๐Ÿ™‚

  • shalane posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    So much truth to that…

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  • shalane posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    Thanks for your reply and welcome!

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