• Ro posted a new activity comment 1 hour, 11 minutes ago

    Hey @mari135 πŸ™‚

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 hour, 12 minutes ago

    Shit I’m just looking at the map @lucy it’s from one side t’other basically innit? From London to Bristol. So where abouts are you? Dementia is a hard thing for sure. My Nana got it and I’ll prob get it too no doubt lol well my mum’s kinda hoping it skips her and comes to me I think lol yeah funny-not! It’s ok while they’re happy. So much better to be sober so you can spend quality time with everyone Lucy. You’ve done your dash on the drink eh? Got the t-shirt. Starting a new chapter now. And all that jazz!!! Said while waving jazz hands ha ha I hope you have a great day today- rise and shine your little socks off lady, and if you don’t feel like it, fake it till you make it lol shit I’m full of it aren’t I?

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 hour, 22 minutes ago

    lol the posts go up for anyone to read @judyb so all good πŸ™‚

  • Ro posted an update 10 hours, 47 minutes ago

    755 sober
    Morena
    Hey @lucy I spoke to my mum last night-she is in London on holiday, they were going to the Tate gallery. I was a bit jealous. They are heading to Bristol shortly to see some friends and then to Ireland, then Amsterdam, and then just where ever from there. I wish if it wasn’t so weird they could meet you and mum could give you a hug from me ha ha ha. Poor mum lol she works in a chemist in a small touristy kind of town here, so if anyone ever says they are going there I send them in to say hello to her ha ha she said I shouldn’t have said anything about the stabbing in the eye, if the chick gets run over they’ll know where to look ha ha hah! I’m off to work in a minute. Can’t wait.
    Hope you had a good day and are now relaxing. How is your old mum?
    Keep strong like KIng Kong you lot drinking piss is so yesterday
    Ma te wa

    • I know your post is for Lucy, hope you don’t mind that I read it. I absolutely love your last bit β€˜Keep strong like King King, drinking puss is so yesterday.’ Brilliant.

    • I’m not far from Bristol @Ro about 2 hours away.. would love to meet your mum lol… and I’d give her a big hug for you.. London is fab but haven’t been for years.. was meant to take the kids last Christmas… shopping but they played up so I didn’t take them haha.. My mum is ok her Dementia is getting worse but she’s still a character she’s 82 now.. your post really made me laugh….stabbing in the eye.. but I know what you mean.. some days I don’t do people. not good for working in a super market.. catch ya tomorrow off to bed now.. take care. King Kong is thumping “her chest” lol.. xxxxx

      • Shit I’m just looking at the map @lucy it’s from one side t’other basically innit? From London to Bristol. So where abouts are you? Dementia is a hard thing for sure. My Nana got it and I’ll prob get it too no doubt lol well my mum’s kinda hoping it skips her and comes to me I think lol yeah funny-not! It’s ok while they’re happy. So much better to be sober so you can spend quality time with everyone Lucy. You’ve done your dash on the drink eh? Got the t-shirt. Starting a new chapter now. And all that jazz!!! Said while waving jazz hands ha ha I hope you have a great day today- rise and shine your little socks off lady, and if you don’t feel like it, fake it till you make it lol shit I’m full of it aren’t I?

    • Loved reading this, Ro!
      xoxoxoxox

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 22 hours, 20 minutes ago

    Lol the yoga teacher was talking about non-violence how apt @saoirse I didn’t really fantasize that I exaggerate if you hadn’t noticed….

    • Hahahaha non violence hahahaha I was listening to a young know-it-all today. If only she simply made coffee rather than deal with really serious things happening in families …
      A big breakthrough with the aggro AND passive aggro creature I work with. She was given a talking to, we ended up together at a talk, and friendly! man, all the stops pulled out. Of course I lap it up with barely a REMEMBER! Never forget what she is capable of.
      For once in my career, I may have an effective leader (young!) who will deal with stuff … too good to be true, I had better watch out

  • Ro posted an update 1 day, 1 hour ago

    754 sober
    Gidday
    Back to work for the week today. Hadn’t been there long and fantasized about stabbing a workmate in the eye with a serrated knife I was holding . . .finished early so that was probably a good thing . . .she’s a passive aggressive bitch that is so far up the bosses arse there isn’t any point in saying anything to the boss. And of course she has issues so you know I’d probably be meant to make allowances for that. You know what? We’ve all got issues cunty so fuck off
    I try to like her and then she says something dumb and cunty and I just want to slam her into next week. Of course she’s not 30 yet and has no kids, and makes coffee for a living so you know she’s an authority on everything……..Peace and light peace and light om shanti om lol I do have yoga tonight. Just as well I guess. I shouldn’t let her effect me so much. It is what it is. Can’t like everyone I suppose but it does bum me out. She makes shit more stressful than it has to be.
    I just brought a new grate for the fire-great! About to crank it up.
    Kia kaha
    Ma te wa

    • Must be something in the water as I am dealing with the same delightful behaviour at work. I sometimes wonder how people can be so unreasonable and just not care.

    • You sound like me yesterday, getting a bit feisty, in my head I might add. Thought all the tossers had descended on Cambridge just to fuck me right off LOL. Probably no harm in having the occasional non PC thoughts, quite exhilarating sometimes I find!! Enjoy your cosy fire. ❤️

      • Lol the yoga teacher was talking about non-violence how apt @saoirse I didn’t really fantasize that I exaggerate if you hadn’t noticed….

        • Hahahaha non violence hahahaha I was listening to a young know-it-all today. If only she simply made coffee rather than deal with really serious things happening in families …
          A big breakthrough with the aggro AND passive aggro creature I work with. She was given a talking to, we ended up together at a talk, and friendly! man, all the stops pulled out. Of course I lap it up with barely a REMEMBER! Never forget what she is capable of.
          For once in my career, I may have an effective leader (young!) who will deal with stuff … too good to be true, I had better watch out

    • I love your posts @ro hehe you have the best way with words ! Hope you enjoyed yoga ooommm….

    • I love the brutal honesty of this post…. in my case I usually want to stab them with a blunt knife 😂

    • Tell her C U NEXT TUESDAY

    • @Ro you do make me laugh… I know where I work I could scream at a woman because she talks utter shit.. constanly. Today she pissed me off and i just glared at her and she fucked off.. thank god as I was on the deli and would have used a very sharp knife… lol xxx

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 day, 1 hour ago

    I’m good thank you @bcat if you want someone to see your reply highlight their name like I did with yours by putting an @ in front of it. How are you doing today? I’ve a feeling we may be in different time zones? I’m in the southern hemisphere πŸ™‚

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 day, 10 hours ago

    I think I can remember you writing about that panic attack you know. Well what a turn around eh? Woo hoo yeayah! So stoked you had a great time πŸ™‚

    • Thank you @ro! That huge panic attack was a big turning point in my journey. Made me realize I needed to dig deeper to really get on the road to recovery. Amazing how facing what we don’t want to look at makes us stronger. Xo

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 day, 10 hours ago

    Have you looked at Rational recovery @lucy ? Just google it. I only needed to read what I could see online. Helped me heaps πŸ™‚

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 day, 10 hours ago

    Hello and welcome to Living Sober πŸ™‚

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 day, 10 hours ago

    Hello and welcome to Living Sober πŸ™‚

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 day, 10 hours ago

    Good morning from the bottom of the south Island of New Zealand πŸ™‚ Welcome

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 day, 21 hours ago

    That coastline-wow 😍 and the history huh. We got a tsunami warning but then that was cancelled. Ooh food from France now! Cheese mmmmm and pate mmmmm and pastries aaarrrgghh yummm. Enjoy it all @prudence 🇨🇵🇨🇵🇨🇵

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 day, 22 hours ago

    Hey @lucy what’s on for your Monday?

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 2 days, 2 hours ago

    Sorry to hear that @jm πŸ™

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 2 days, 6 hours ago

    Congratulations! What a great post. Really stoked for you πŸ™‚

    • Thanks Ro, so relieved to find something as time was running out and there was nothing suitable on market, until this place popped up last Monday – it was definitely meant to be πŸ™‚

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 2 days, 7 hours ago

    Wow Paris! How fantastic…..I’ve never been to Europe, Of course Prudence is in Europe at the moment, and so is my mother, who incidentally has pretty much been M.I.A since she got there. Having far too much fun obviously to keep in touch with the little people back in Antartica lol lucky buggers. Prudence’s pictures have been amazing. I could go to Italy and never come home.
    Yeah I’ve been heart sore for my friend losing his wee girl. I haven’t seen him for a long time. I don’t want to see him now πŸ™ How utterly desolate he must be feeling. But I will go and see him the next time I go up the road. It’s a few hours away. Not far but I don’t go very often at all.
    Where abouts are you in the world? The U.K or U.S.A? It is a cold,grey and rainy day here in the deep south of New Zealand today. Quite bleak. But that’s alright. I’ve already got a big pot of chicken and vege soup on and when I’ve dropped my guy off shortly I’ll get the fire going. The dogs love baking their brains out by it.

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 2 days, 7 hours ago

    Hey @mari135 πŸ™‚

    • @Mari135 I missed you yesterday, day 4 today for me and already feeling brighter.. will do a post later as I’ve just got up and waiting for kid to clear off to school so it’s quite here.. xx

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 2 days, 7 hours ago

    I hope you have a good Monday today then. Yeah Tuesday is my Monday and don’t they always roll around fast! I need at least three days off I reckon, two just isn’t enough! Well done on Day 15 -that’s half a whole month you know!

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 2 days, 7 hours ago

    Its always wonderful to blow out the cobwebs with a walk in the wind! Sorry about the job-not for you this time. Way to go on your day count πŸ™‚

    • Isn’t it! Everyone else around was bracing themselves against the wind and I’m extolling how it’s my favourite thing ever! It’s not a worry about the job really, just fancied a couple of years back in Paris! I’m proud of my day count! How are things with you and yours? sounds like a tough old time xxx

      • Wow Paris! How fantastic…..I’ve never been to Europe, Of course Prudence is in Europe at the moment, and so is my mother, who incidentally has pretty much been M.I.A since she got there. Having far too much fun obviously to keep in touch with the little people back in Antartica lol lucky buggers. Prudence’s pictures have been amazing. I could go to Italy and never come home.
        Yeah I’ve been heart sore for my friend losing his wee girl. I haven’t seen him for a long time. I don’t want to see him now πŸ™ How utterly desolate he must be feeling. But I will go and see him the next time I go up the road. It’s a few hours away. Not far but I don’t go very often at all.
        Where abouts are you in the world? The U.K or U.S.A? It is a cold,grey and rainy day here in the deep south of New Zealand today. Quite bleak. But that’s alright. I’ve already got a big pot of chicken and vege soup on and when I’ve dropped my guy off shortly I’ll get the fire going. The dogs love baking their brains out by it.

  • Ro posted an update 2 days, 8 hours ago

    753 sober
    Morena
    I just got off phone from ordering flowers for friends. Cracked up trying to give the florist the message. What do you say to someone who has just buried their kid? Nothing really cuts it. They’ll know I’m thinking of them at least.
    Haven’t got much planned for today. Same old Monday bullshit. Mundane. Oh well could be worse. Think that’ll have to be my new motto. Oh I am going to go help my friend who has had several brain surgeries and can’t walk properly, slurs and can’t see straight. She has 3 kids youngest being 5. Just reconnected with her last week. Will go and do some of her housework for her.
    About time for gratitude lists again methinks-
    1. I am very grateful for both of my children
    2. I am grateful for my loving partner
    3. I am grateful for my doggies
    4. I am grateful for my health
    Ma te wa

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 3 days, 7 hours ago

    Don’t let him bring you down the fucker! What’s his buzz? Gets a kick out of bumming you out? Nah fuck that shit. Ask him outright what his problem is and does he want you to fail? He’s meant to be there for you through thick and thin, and build you up and love you. Not try and bring you down and be mean to you. Oh and he’s still drinking so you know is he jealous of your great accomplishment and wishes he was off the shit himself?

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 3 days, 7 hours ago

    Sorry to hear about your Dad @jm yeah just relax and treat yourself. You’ll need to unwind after finishing your school work. Sorry about the dumb family shit

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 3 days, 7 hours ago

    Way to go on the ton! Treat yourself and keep up the good work πŸ™‚

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 3 days, 7 hours ago

    Morena @oceania πŸ™‚

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 3 days, 7 hours ago

    What a fantastic post @kaydee sounds as though you are having a wonderful holiday πŸ™‚

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 3 days, 7 hours ago

    Welcome here @mcat πŸ™‚

  • Ro posted an update 3 days, 7 hours ago

    752 sober
    Morena
    Thanks to all that responded to my last post. My friend that lost his child-I haven’t seen him for a very long time, or met his daughter. We live in a different town. but many of my friends would have attended the little girls service yesterday. My heart is broken for him and his wife. I have my own opinions on suicide which I won’t get into but for a young child of 12 to do this, well it’s incomprehensible really.
    Haven’t got much planned for the day. Chilling at home tidying the same old shit up I spose. Which is ok. Could be a lot worse.
    Sorry haven’t managed to reply to your posts @iowadawn life sounds great for you at the moment – I’m super stoked for you.
    And it’s great to see you again @lucy I did shout out to you for awhile there, so I’m glad you’re alive and kicking! lol C’mon old mate back on the wagon. Best you buckle up this time cobber. You know the drill. Come here everyday Lucy. You know how much it helps. Looking forward to seeing you on the regular.
    Ma te wa

    • There’s surely no denying the ripple effect of that inextricable GRIEF. Condolences to that child’s family and dearest ones, such as yourself @Ro. So sorry.

    • Hi @Ro… yes I will be here every god dam day from now on…. and I will be posting quite often because this is it this time… going to be very open and honest… love to you my friend xx

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 3 days, 22 hours ago

    Hi @enzedgirl Im ok. Thanks for asking. Been sad all day

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 4 days, 20 hours ago

    Well done you – what a legend 💪

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 4 days, 20 hours ago

    In bed nearly asleep but looking forward to seeing you 😁

    • Hi Ro how you doing?? I’ve hit rock bottom again… bottles of vodka and wine.. still functioning though.. but blacking out all the time.. feel so shit today.. need to sort my life out again.. x

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 4 days, 20 hours ago

    Luuuuuuuuuucy! Hey you 😊

    • In bed nearly asleep but looking forward to seeing you 😁

      • Hi Ro how you doing?? I’ve hit rock bottom again… bottles of vodka and wine.. still functioning though.. but blacking out all the time.. feel so shit today.. need to sort my life out again.. x

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 4 days, 21 hours ago

    So tragic 😢 yes thank you liberty I’m about to go to bed. My friend is in Dunedin. I just said to my partner that if I was there I would prob be drinking at a private club

  • Ro posted an update 4 days, 21 hours ago

    750 sober
    Struggled this afternoon after hearing a friend lost his 12yr daughter to suicide and will bury her tomorrow
    Absolute fucking shit

    • I’m so sorry @ro. 12….
      Devastating. Is anyone with you tonight?

      • So tragic 😢 yes thank you liberty I’m about to go to bed. My friend is in Dunedin. I just said to my partner that if I was there I would prob be drinking at a private club

    • Jesus. Sorry @ro. That really really sucks. 💔

    • So sorry to hear that @ro. No words.

    • Thats horrific, beyond words xx

    • How sad, but nit worth drinking for as it does nothing to honour her death or memory. I truly feel for her family

    • Oh fuck Ro I’m so sorry 😭

    • So sorry to hear this @ro

    • @ro I have no words for this tragedy so am sending you warmth and caring. This is so dreadful I can’t even begin to imagine what her parents are feeling. 🌿🌿

    • XXXXX even though I should be able to believe it, given my work, I can’t. Fucking shit indeed
      Heaps of love

    • Oh my goodness … heartbreaking. Im so terribly sorry. ❤️

    • @ro – Oh God Bless them all! 12?????? Today marks the two year anniversary of my friend’s 15 year old doing the same. The pressure for these children these days saddens me. Thank you for sharing. I will pray for them today.

    • Oh shit…. πŸ™ This is so sad.
      Hugs and hugs your way, Ro.
      oxoxoxox
      I just read an article how rare it is that children that age commit suicide. It was written by a child psychologist. Absolute tragic. oxoxoxox

    • What a tragedy and huge loss, my heart goes out to you and your friend.

    • I’m so sorry @ro

    • Oh soooo sorry. What the hell is up in this world??!!! Sending sincere condolences and carrying your and your friend in my hear today.

    • Oh no, that is awful. Im so sorry xoxo

    • Sorry, Ro. That IS shit. We just lost a niece-in-law to suicide 2 weeks ago. She shot herself in the head in a carpark and prepared by calling to tow company first. I firmly believe we need tv/radio/internet ads on how to cope and not commit suicide blanketing the world. I’m really sorry. Just so….I have no words…

    • Oh, that’s terrible. I can’t really think of any worse news. The pain of the parents must be unbearable. I’m sorry.

    • So sorry to hear this @ro. Devastating for her family. Take care of you too. Your friend is lucky to have you during this heartbreaking time. ❤️❤️

    • Oh @ro. Just a baby. Too too sore. Take care sweet lady.

    • That’s so incredibly tragic, Ro. I can’t imagine the pain you must all be going through. Grief from suicide is so immensely complicated and even more so when a child. There is specialist help for this situation and it’s really important to try and get it. I work with an organisation that does postvention work with schools after a suicide, mainly advising on the community aspect of things. Your friend has amazing support from you, but you need to really look after yourself too. Lifeline, Samaritans – places where people listen in confidence and without judgement and where you can talk frankly about suicide and suicidal feelings – just to help the fog clear a bit. All love, darling x

  • Ro posted an update 6 days, 22 hours ago

    I’m still having trouble with the ‘read more’ option? It takes me to the persons profile instead of opening the post in the feed @danthedev

    • Thanks Ro. I was about to say exactly the same.

    • Yup. Me too.

      • ugggh thats so frustrating. I have tweaked some things now, including turning off the scroll animation and making the post button always visible. I have also cleared all our caches and reset the ssl certificate. Lastly I have reached out to the theme developers asking for a solution where we don’t need the “read more” button – just load all the content the first time. Some people do write long posts, but its not really an issue, you can just scroll over them – Ill put any further updates or info in this ticket https://livingsober.org.nz/site-support/read-more-button-not-working-as-expected/ if you want to add anything to the ticket, just leave a comment.
        Hopefully today is better then yesterday.

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    Hello and welcome @gallagherregan πŸ™‚

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    Good on you. You just have to keep at it. That’s all there is to it. It has gotten HEAPS easier for me, so I’m not just talking shit when I say that it will for you too but you know you didn’t get here overnight so yeah you are doing a hard thing and 23 days is really fucking AWESOME πŸ™‚

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    Hello and welcome here @tia1 πŸ™‚

  • Ro posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    745 sober
    Morena
    Have a slight headache brought on by having to control two little beasts namely an old cat and a young dog who are getting to know each other and it’s all the dog can do to not chase the cat. Meanwhile the cat sits two feet away yowling and glaring evilly. The old dog is scared of the cat and gets frozen to the spot so I have to escort her up and down the hallway. It’s worse than bloody children!
    The weather has cleared somewhat but it is rather chilly even though the sun is out. Nice that it isn’t windy or raining to be sure. Especially as I’m wanting to hopefully fit a drier in the back of my car and shoot out to Riverton and drop it off to my kid. If it doesn’t fit we’ll have to use the trailer. Ain’t nobody got time for that lol
    I’ve got to work early tomorrow. Ugh that’s like 5am at the latest. So totally cruising on it today.
    I hope everyone is having a great weekend would love to hear what you’ve been doing. I finished watching Dead to Me this week. I enjoyed it more than I expected. My kid is hassling me to check out When they see us, but after watching the preview I don’t think I can. Too full on for me. Just get the rage fired up. I’ve really been enjoying Lego masters- who else is watching that? I’ve never played with lego. Those clever buggers are so creative, I’m fascinated with what they make. And I’m looking forward to MKR tonight although I may not make it to 7pm lol. I don’t just watch TV I’m also re-reading Outlander at the moment and a new block of yoga starts this week. My sciatica? has been affecting my hip and knee a bit this week, so hoping my back doesn’t fail again….it’s been feeling a little bit sketchy in my hip joint like the ball is going to fall out of the socket and gratey lol sounds extreme. Feels it too. I’m like an 80yr old and I’m not even 50 fucks sake.
    Right hopping in the drink and getting this day started
    Peace out team and keep strong like King Kong, and don’t forget that you will not die if you…[Read more]

    • Sounds full on for a Sunday! Have you got a new dog?
      Has you hip been x rayed? Maybe time for a new one – well, waiting lists…. I know some very young people who have had replacement hips – one was a marathon runner, such a crazy thing to do; new it. Go gently at yoga. It should do some good though – get some fresh blood moving around and healing areas. Hope.
      Looks like a lovely day here, so that means garage sorting for me, sob. then study sorting, double sob. At least we will have glorious pictures of Rome to drool over from @Prudence.
      Happy day xxx

    • I have been reading the Book Thief, and I love it, but it’s slow going as it brings up so many emotions pertaining to every day life in the U.S. these days. Unenlightened any stretches for your sciatica?.helps.me a bit.

    • I just finished a book I liked a lot called Bangkok Wakes to Rain. Coming up is my last week of the school year, so very busy at work. I start a summer job right after school ends, also as a reading teacher, but in a very low key summer program that is lots of fun. I’m on the Eastern Shore of Maryland this weekend with my husband and 2 dogs. We played tennis for the first time in about 10 years and it was funny since we were so out of practice. We didn’t hit many balls in the court and spent most of our time picking up balls to try again. The weather was beautiful, but it’s thundering now, so no tennis tomorrow I guess. @ro

    • Hi @ro. You sound busy. I felt very stupid today. I had organised to stay with my daughter and her partner in another town as I had a ticket to see a ballet. I got all dressed up and off I went. The venue was very empty I checked it was the right place. It was but it was the wrong weekend! I feel my retirement has made me forgetful. I don’t know what day is what. I was very embarrassed! Have a good day at work. Xx

    • Hi there @ro. Your animals certainly do sound like children, well loved!! I have been keeping pretty busy with reading and visiting man. Did manage to get some housework done this weekend!!! Sorted out all my court paperwork which took me about 2hours, slower than slow process not unlike the courts themselves. Been doing some drawing and a bit of walking but sort of in hibernation mode for Winter!!
      Work is good, not too frantic, just steady. Managing not to get too snippy!! Keeping my journal and gratitude list daily keeps me peaceful and happy.❤️

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago

    Hello and good morning @marcia well it’s morning where I am at the bottom of the south island of New Zealand πŸ™‚

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago

    My two years was 15 days ago @kitten but that’s ok I love to be praised lol

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago

    Congrats on two years @elizabeth66 a wonderful achievement you should feel really proud 😊

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago

    A few months into my sobriety someone here mentioned Rational recovery. Google it. May resonate with you like it did to me. Declaring abstinence to yourself and meaning it, then getting on with living is about the crux of it. It has really helped me and others so I try to mention it at least once a week around here so newcomers can check it out 🙂

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago

    Have a great game out in the elements! Are you in Taranaki? I love it up there…

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago

    Hello and welcome @chasingthedandelion
    7 days is AMAZING well done you 👍 you might be feeling it harder because you’ve made a conscious choice to deny yourself something you think you really like. It’s always easier when the choice has been made for us (like when pregnant for example). I was a bottle a day too. Two bottles a night on my weekends. I’ve not long clocked up two years sober. I’ll never drink again. You’ve come to a great place. Looking forward to getting to know you 😊

    • Thanks for your encouragement, so good to hear you have two years under your belt! I feel like I have come to the right place😀

      • A few months into my sobriety someone here mentioned Rational recovery. Google it. May resonate with you like it did to me. Declaring abstinence to yourself and meaning it, then getting on with living is about the crux of it. It has really helped me and others so I try to mention it at least once a week around here so newcomers can check it out 🙂

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago

    Great post @kjpeche winning at life!

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago

    You should be stoked on yourself 21 days is great! Why don’t you set yourself a 3 month goal to start with instead of labels like ‘forever’ and it might not feel quite so extreme. Get to 3 months and re-evaluate from there. Well done you 😊

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 week, 4 days ago

    Freedom! Best feeling EVER πŸ™‚

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 week, 4 days ago

    ^^^^^^ A M A Z I N G @prudence I can only dream about going to Rome wow the Sistine Chapel how fucking cool is that
    Flights sounded horrific – whaddya expect calling a baby girl Noah??? I mean c’mon lol and you should’ve taken some V.I.P poo stuff or whatever that terrible ad is for, to spray over stink pits-awful situation.
    Mmmm go to the cake shops omg get Gelato and ask for pasta that comes served in a wheel of parmesan- it looks amazing, and pizza omg I’m dying of jealousy get heaps of pics. My Mum got pickpocketed in The Vatican city by a guy dressed like a clergy man ( no shit!) so watch out for dodgy geezers! Have fun!!! Throw a coin in the Trevi for me πŸ™‚

  • Ro posted a new activity comment 1 week, 5 days ago

    Trumpet bum

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