Hey team, pretty tired here after a big day yesterday with a funeral then a wake that went well into the night. I cried many tears, chatted to many people, heated up many pizzas and garlic breads and cheese rolls, poured a few cups of tea, snuggled with many kids, hugged many adults, sung a few songs, cleaned up a few empty bottles, cried some more tears. It was a beautiful way to send off our lovely matriach. What a special lady. 350-400 people at her funeral, she had devoted her whole life to people and it showed with how many people turned up to pay their respects. I was very grateful for my clear head throughout, my deep connection to what was going on and my ability to be present for everyone I crossed paths with. Today the sun is out and we start to get used to our new normal without her in our midst. Hug the ones you love and live life to the fullest. Oh and don’t drink shit booze.. it adds nothing but has the ability to take so much away. xxx
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