thanks for your message @jm, and i totally agree that the first 5, well even 6 are the hardest. I actually had a really good day 5, but its this day 6 that has crippled me so all plans to get back in the gym have gone out the window. Decided to just rest up and let it do its thing. tomorrow is a new day 🙂
Hi @dreamer88! Sobriety is a divining tool to see who are your real friends. I feel like I have fewer people in my life, a pretty quiet social life, but the ones who are around, I share a pretty strong bond with. That is for sure – it can get lonely. But so can drinking, lonely and hungover is the worst feeling. Would you consider online dating?…[Read more]
I’m reading about Jacinda and what a great role model she is to all leaders of the world. Love to all of you NZers! And a shout out to @reena and @iowadawn and @lizzie! Haven’t seen your updates lately, hope you guys are doing well! xx
Saw Jacinda on TV today visiting a school. She comes across as so strong yet so compassionate. She told the students it was ok to grieve and to ask for help. She is a wonderful reflection of the spirit of the New Zealand people.
Hi @AnnfromCanada! I’m also Canadian. I find that people share struggles, frustrations, triumphs, new things they learn from being sober, announcement of ‘soberversaries’, triggers, family problems, great quotations, suggestions for ‘sober toolbox’, great books, an article related to sobriety, sometimes embedded videos of songs. Checking in once a…[Read more]
Hi @BonnieCakes! It’s so crazy, the talk around alcohol and stopping. My husband was like that initially, like of course you can just have one. I could sometimes, but not always, and then it became a complete disaster. Huge congrats on 50 days!!
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