• janus2 posted a new activity comment 1 day, 18 hours ago

    Its a little dependent on your piss consumption, 5-20 days. Normally for most bout 10. Set a good sleep hygiene routine now and follow through. E.g no ipads etc in bed, read or listen to audiobooks. You need to head to bed at least hr before to get to routine, calmly and easily. Things will change

  • janus2 posted a new activity comment 1 day, 18 hours ago

    Fuck me! You go girlfriend
    Rocking this new dance @kitten xo

  • janus2 posted a new activity comment 1 day, 18 hours ago

    Well…. at least it wasnt your gynae… “hello im 1 yr sober down here” i could go on and say…. but i wont @jocord you know where it would go aye..gutter lol🤗

  • janus2 posted a new activity comment 1 day, 18 hours ago

    Nah dont need her, just need @moi chainsaw at the ready @robynb. Listen to the Brevet get your mind occupied. Males can be such c*nts.

  • janus2 posted a new activity comment 2 days ago

    Oh god @robynb thats the worst thing to hear. Why is it that these males get into these positions working with the vulnerable. Thing is its just keep happening. I say remove all cocks frm these men..and i mean that. Take care u.xo

    • robynb replied 2 days ago

      I know. Was.a.time I wadnt so vengeful but yeah, in these situations where they abuse their position as well as just being a sex offender, fuck all, something drastic needs to happen. Where is Lorrain e Bobbit when you need her!!

      • So upsetting to hear and why should we feel powerless? Should be able to identify and remove ASAP! So frustrating. I do admit to laughing out loud really hard at your Lorraine Bobbit comment though. Leave it to you two to give me a nice dark laugh regarding a seriously sad subject. I agree something must be done!

      • Thing is men can still be perps without a cock. Down the gully. End of story.

      • Nah dont need her, just need @moi chainsaw at the ready @robynb. Listen to the Brevet get your mind occupied. Males can be such c*nts.

  • janus2 posted a new activity comment 2 days, 19 hours ago

    Yeah @ro am. Have 1 more term at Picton school. Am applying for jobs at stoke and upper moutere, but both want teachers part wsy through this term, so dont hold out much luck. Ho hum pigs bum😂

  • janus2 posted a new activity comment 2 days, 19 hours ago

    Can you meet them seperately? Can i just say something, dont take it wrong way, but you have to let them do what they have to. I think in some respects you maybe needing them a little more at the moment. I was an arsehole daughter but when mum tried to interfere i went ballistic. I would look into that .. “i am worried about them i want to…[Read more]

    • Wanting to drink is about numbing the helpless feelings. But really there is more to the feelings. It seems that my concern is just the tip of the iceberg. I am working on uncovering more of what I was feeling. Slowly

  • janus2 posted a new activity comment 2 days, 19 hours ago

    Thats the thing bout wanky holidays, makes some feel lonely, full of regrets,blah blah blah. But hey your sober, maybe not sane,🙃 but sober is farking alright isnt it? Go out in the next week and build today memories 👌

  • janus2 posted an update 2 days, 20 hours ago

    Jesus wept @reena where you been girlfriend.😍 wet punty day in south island. How you been chook? Xo

    • Been thinking about you too @reena hoping you are well 😊
      Cracking day in the deep south @janus2 hope you’re having some down time these hols. Are you still moving to Mot?

      • Yeah @ro am. Have 1 more term at Picton school. Am applying for jobs at stoke and upper moutere, but both want teachers part wsy through this term, so dont hold out much luck. Ho hum pigs bum😂

    • Hugs to reena! oxoxoxo

    • R51 replied 1 day ago

      Yes – @reena. How are you doing sweet lady?

  • janus2 posted a new activity comment 2 days, 20 hours ago

    Omg THAT SERIOUSLY IS THE FUNNIEST THING IVE HEARD! 😉 😇 and to think you were so excited lol. Jesus wept @robynb you better have made a quick pray for me. Oh you have made my day!😜

  • janus2 posted a new activity comment 3 days, 16 hours ago

    Now that why i want to live in a yurt or a tiny house, so i dont end up with clutter bullshit.

  • janus2 posted a new activity comment 3 days, 16 hours ago

    Jesus wept, cant sleep so thought i post. Things with families is that you have to set firm boundaries… byjaysus my siblings were the same and its taken 5 yrs to get semi on track. You could get a sign for your front that you can put up…fuckoffski da whanau! 😉 keep doing what your doing and try not to ruminate on what happend in the past.…[Read more]

  • janus2 posted a new activity comment 3 days, 16 hours ago

    Think of it as a mountain you have to climb. 1foot in front of the other plus you need a really…fuck off attitude as well. Xo

  • janus2 posted a new activity comment 3 days, 16 hours ago

    A) Bless you my child! Say a prayer for me 😉
    B) dont show off bout your 3rd yr sober. Xo

  • janus2 posted a new activity comment 3 days, 17 hours ago

    Good job! Have you been to a G.P? Its all very well cutting down over time,but you need a backup plan e.g antabuse you should start once you have stopped. You will need support from that day. Keep posting.

    • Thank you. No I haven’t been to a GP and it didn’t occur to me that I should. I haven’t heard of Antabuse. Thanks for the advice, I will look into it.

  • janus2 posted a new activity comment 3 days, 17 hours ago

    @Bobby you have been here before and pulled through. You have to dig deep, if you want this and we know you do, then dig your claws in, put your crampons on and climb up. Said this many times on this site google rational recovery. Dont think you have before. Good to see you back x

  • janus2 posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    Mate be careful of EMDR .Its very suggestive, and does take aspects of life out of context. If easily suggestible, i.e issues that couldve happened, then its suggested by therapist and you go omg thats me. Seriously not the way to go for PTSD. Sounds like you need a therapist who give you kick up arse sorry xo lol

  • janus2 posted a new activity comment 2 weeks ago

    Ya know what im looking forward too..
    Them coming to mine… excitement plus… cant wait.

  • janus2 posted a new activity comment 2 weeks ago

    Lol my niece is a forensic auditor, why is everyone afraid of them? Nothing to hide, nothing to fret

    • It’s always a bit stressful having someone double check & question everything you do even if you know you’ve done everything correctly. Human nature I guess.

  • janus2 posted a new activity comment 2 weeks ago

    Aaah got you thinking aye.! People on here can call me all the names under the sun if i post back, if shitty, it means Ive hit a nerve. Its not a race to be an alcoholic, but a race to be A.F. Is that our end goal. Be shitty with me, fab. Your thinking. A kid in my class said AGAIN ” I hate you, today ” my reply very quietly to him “i like you “…[Read more]

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