@hodge
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That saying is so true @01oceanbreeze. You are doing an amazing job. Keep strong. So hard giving up both and keeping yourself distracted like you have been is the best thing xx
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Welcome @limetwiste. I’m on day 15 too and this will also be my first ever sober Christmas. We’ve got this xx
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What an absolutely amazing achievement @enzedgirl. An inspiration.
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Thank you @hodge x
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Hodge posted a new activity comment 1 day, 3 hours ago
Amazing ladies. How nice 😀 xx
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Hodge posted a new activity comment 2 days, 9 hours ago
Congrats on 90 days that’s amazing. Keep focused and this patch will pass xx
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Hodge posted an update 3 days ago
Day 14 and feeling much stronger. Currently on a trip to the Hunter valley with my mum (a trip arranged prior to me stopping.) it is a little tough but Mum also not drinking and been to a coffee and desert bar and swim in the pool so far. Enjoying some much needed time out from the kids and reflecting. Confident I can get through the weekend AF.…[Read more]
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good for you Hodge. enjoy that time out
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Awesome job! You are doing so great!!
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Ah-lovely spot but I see what you mean @hodge!! Great to have your mum not drinking either, nice work.
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Two weeks, way to go!!! ooxoxoxox That’s one beautiful soberversary milestone!
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Hodge posted a new activity comment 4 days, 22 hours ago
Great read @frog thanks for posting
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Hodge posted a new activity comment 4 days, 22 hours ago
That’s amazing @timidwarrior. I have seen you have been struggling but I hope reaching this milestone keeps you motivated to keep going. I can’t wait to reach 50 days again!
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Hodge posted a new activity comment 4 days, 22 hours ago
Congratulations @samartee that’s amazing!
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Hodge posted a new activity comment 4 days, 22 hours ago
Welcome @01oceanbreezeand @maholyn xx
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Hodge posted a new activity comment 1 week ago
That’s really tough. Well done on staying strong. It’s amazing how different things look from the outside looking in. I’m sure your friend is conscious of it too but sounds like she is stuck in a rut. Glad you still enjoyed your time away xx
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Hodge posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago
Thank you for the lovely message @sunshinestace @freedom1025 @tom4500 it really has made me feel better this morning. Hope you are good xx
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Hodge posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago
Have a lovely well deserved time xx
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Hodge posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago
Thanks @rise2015. I know you are right. I done 7 months a while back. Well done on picking back up and getting to 201 that’s great. Hope I can be here for the long run this time xx
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Hodge posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago
Absolutely amazing. An inspiration xx
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Hodge posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago
Amazing. I’m sure you’re family are very proud xx
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Hodge posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago
Congratulations amazing achievement! Xx
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Hodge posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago
I understand how you feel. I was supposed to be going on a Christmas cruise tomorrow but have cancelled as too hard. Stay strong it can only get easier with time xxx
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@Hodge have you got something else planned that you can enjoy? It might pay to make sure you do something nice for yourself so you don’t feel like you are missing out on the Christmas fun. I caved this time 3 years ago (after 203 days) at a Christmas work do, so I am hanging around here a lot at the moment … kind of a bit of insurance to…[Read more]
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Thanks @rise2015. I know you are right. I done 7 months a while back. Well done on picking back up and getting to 201 that’s great. Hope I can be here for the long run this time xx
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Hodge posted an update 1 week, 1 day ago
Day 7. How i wish I could rewind and undo my actions this time last week. I know I need to be strong and take the bad memories and use them as a tool to not let it happen again but feeling so lonely right now and still getting the silent treatment from hubby. At least tomorrow morning won’t be as bad as sane time last week!
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@hodge look forward not back. Shame helps nobody actions speak louder than words and the fact that you are doing something by being here is movement In the right direction. Be gentle with yourself yes it will take time with your hubby but focus on yourself and what you’re doing and in time you’ll come around that sounds hard but be gentle with yourself
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Once your apologiesd all you can do is show by actions that you are changing and rebuild a better relationship with him and yourself. Well done on day 7
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I agree with @JR, dear @hodge. Be kind and gentle with yourself and forgive what’s in the past. Dwelling there will just make you feel worse, and can sabotage your (awesome!!!) 7-day sobriety streak! Keep looking forward and know that everything will be okay. Sorry about the silent treatment – that’s hard to deal with. Hang in there!!
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Thank you for the lovely message @sunshinestace @freedom1025 @tom4500 it really has made me feel better this morning. Hope you are good xx
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Oh hon we have ALL been there. That burden of shame can crush us. So set it down and focus on the beautiful things sobriety has to offer … self respect, balance, energy, peace. As the others have said, give your husband time. Your actions will speak volumes. We’re here for you.
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Staying AF will lead to great days ahead for you, of that you can be assured. Cheering for you Hodge, don’t let lonely be a reason to drink. There are no good reasons.
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Hodge posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago
Thank you for your kind words. It means a lot. Hope you are doing well x
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Thanks so much @hodge! Fighting the good fight lol