• hetiheti posted a new activity comment 11 hours, 16 minutes ago

    DennyD … good to hear that … reading my own post from 6 yrs ago makes me so sad … i also recently found a weight journal of around that time … i was so sad … trying so hard to lose weight but doing it all wrong … having alcohol free nights twice a week thinking i could control my problem that way but alas no … i lived on this site in…[Read more]

  • hetiheti posted an update 21 hours, 1 minute ago

    Always interested what comes up on my fb memories … forgot about this one from 6 years ago …
    tomorrow i start on a 30-day challenge – thanks to kelly – 30 days of no wine – no bread – no pasta – no processed food – the latter is fine and i can do that BUT no wine for 30 days – so i am putting it up here for all the support i can get – anyone…[Read more]

    • perfectly timed post @hetiheti I could feel my resolve starting to wane. You have inspired me to continue. I have managed a night out earlier this week with family who are big drinkers and had a really great night….sober!!! We are going out with my sister and her husband tomorrow night and we traditionally hit it hard and have a lot of laughs.…[Read more]

      • DennyD … good to hear that … reading my own post from 6 yrs ago makes me so sad … i also recently found a weight journal of around that time … i was so sad … trying so hard to lose weight but doing it all wrong … having alcohol free nights twice a week thinking i could control my problem that way but alas no … i lived on this site in…[Read more]

    • Pretty powerful post, you got there @hetiheti. Outstanding. xo

    • Fabulous achievement @hetiheti and great of you to pop in and share those thoughts.

  • hetiheti posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    I love your post … very positive … you can do this xx

  • hetiheti posted an update 1 week, 1 day ago

    Hello beautiful sober friends … 1668 days sober … heading into my first 5 years in August … from day one to day 5 when I committed to “forever” I have been comfortable in my sober state … I have belted myself in and ridden that roller coaster, especially in those early days … and discovered I was stronger than I thought I was … I cha…[Read more]

    • @hetiheti, congrats on your anniversary, i mean wow!!!!! i am no where near your day count (and congratulations on that) , but my hardest times of resisting do not come from sad, bored, stressed, depressed, but happy, time to celebrate. First day of spring is coming, for example. changing the definition of c e l e b r a t e is taking me some…[Read more]

    • That is so amazing! Keep your eye on the biggest prize 🙂 and don’t listen to that wine witch! 5 years is an amazing achievement! But bigger still is how much you’ve turned your life around 🙂 keep going! You are an inspiration!

    • morgan replied 1 week ago

      Shock horror!!! You should have a thimble full and I bet you would find it really yuk. Our tastes change so much, especially you being such a great eater. I have had the odd sip when feeling all FOMO, and truly, the chemical ethanol taste hits first.
      Happy anniversary gorgeous XXXXXXX

    • R51 replied 1 week ago

      I get the whole romance part of drinking. How about buying a very nice set of Champaign glasses with 50th anniversary on them. Buying and chilling a bottle of sparking non alcoholic cider and actually like the taste of it and get to admire and recognize your momentous marriage achievement and celebrate your sobriety.

  • hetiheti posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    Its a great feeling … shout it out xx

  • hetiheti posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    Cute … at least it original for sure zx

  • hetiheti posted a new activity comment 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    Shame but no … we kept it up for a long time … might be time to restart again msybe … i do 3 gratitudes every morning … and in the bed i find 3 things to be thankful of for and during that day … and it is true, it helps a LOT

  • hetiheti posted a new activity comment 2 months ago

    Lovely to treat yourself … and well done with D416 … well deserved xx

  • hetiheti posted a new activity comment 2 months ago

    Love it … and i was just teasing … sober4real and another sober warrior has contacted me … at present getting mentor training for a group called Challenge 22+ … all voluntary of course but much better if i know what i am doing i think xx congrats again Mac on it all .
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  • hetiheti posted an update 2 months, 1 week ago

    @sober4real hi sober4real … if i can help you in any way re plant based lifestyle please fb msg me … fb hetti engelen … would be happy to give you info

  • hetiheti posted a new activity comment 2 months, 1 week ago

    Beautiful Mac … arent we the lucky ones ❤ 1600 days is just so fantastic … what a number aye … and what do you mean only 97% plant based … haha … but so good to hear it is working for you as it did for me … xx

  • hetiheti posted a new activity comment 2 months, 1 week ago

    Haha … thanks …

  • hetiheti posted a new activity comment 2 months, 1 week ago

    Great to hear …

  • hetiheti posted a new activity comment 2 months, 1 week ago

    Thank you

  • hetiheti posted a new activity comment 2 months, 1 week ago

    Thank you

  • hetiheti posted a new activity comment 2 months, 1 week ago

    Thank you …

  • hetiheti posted a new activity comment 2 months, 1 week ago

    Oh sue … you were my inspiration way back then … you were whst? 5 yrs sober then and i just could not imagine myself there … yet here i am … thank you for your inspiration for so many of us in our early days xx

  • hetiheti posted a new activity comment 2 months, 1 week ago

    Well done so like me you will be 70 with a good many sober years behind you … our health is worth it for sure

  • hetiheti posted a new activity comment 2 months, 1 week ago

    Thank you

  • hetiheti posted a new activity comment 2 months, 1 week ago

    Awww thank you

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