In this whole process of giving up the drink I have come to realise that not only do I absolutely love being sober, but that I have actually developed an aversion to alcohol… and yes… that includes wine that played such a big role in my life for 2 decades before giving up… who would of thought it eh… 346 days… living the dream!
If you are in the early days hang in there, some days will be better than others, but commit to the decision and stick with it… each day takes you a step further in your journey and sober starts feeling more familiar and comfortable and secure… don’t put huge expectations on yourself to feel amazing straight away, though if and when you do that’s great and enjoy. This journey is worth the hard work at the start! Gotta climb the hill to enjoy the view 🙂
Feel so blessed to have found this community, I’m not walking this journey alone 🙂
I love this post, too. I just barely joined and feel so thankful that I found this community. Congrats on 346 days! I’m only on 3, but I am feeling positive and relieved. It helps to know that aversion develops, too!
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